Just now went to the mac and saw a girl that i dislike. Both of us are friend in the past but the fact is we are not NOW. She has a deplorable character that make me felt very disgust about. I always hang out with her whole family. The unfortunate things is when you saw her whole family and you are no longer her friend , how you going to face her family.I saw her cousin who i doted the most. I always brought her out to playground and play , play with her , brought her to eat and hold her hand firm when i walking with her. Her cousin looked into my eyes. I could see her big wide eyes with a thousand questions , and how much she wanna said hi to me and why i didn't play with her and have fun.I find it a bit upset because I'm not angry with her young cousin but i had to act as i don't know her.
My friend spoiled everything and her family is awesome people. Nevertheless , is meaningless to said right now. Now i just have to move forward. Maybe in future i will see her adorable cousin and maybe tell her what's wrong. Furthermore , we might keep in contact. You never knows the future.
I think you have meet those people who you dislike and do not know how to face it. Well , i have some steps to give you.
- Pretend they are stranger and just look away because if you keep on staring they will thought why you are so disrespect.
- If one of them , talk to you , don't ignore because you are not quarreling with them , they are innocent , just replied politely. End of the day , your friend will tell her family what's wrong. Sometimes , they might add some nasty comments but it will not spoiled your reputation because you replied in a polite way.
- Change a sit where you will not see them directly to prevent any future thought.
- Best is to go off as soon as possible.
- You can tried to stare at your cellphone or maybe sent some message to your friend.
- You can turn on your gadget like iphone , itouch , to play some games which can lesser the thought of them around you.
whoa nice pix
ReplyDeletetough one, I will probably scram out of there as fast as I can.
ReplyDeletenice photos.. =)
ReplyDeleteNice tips :)
ReplyDeleteI've had the same experience as you. My (now ex) best friend turned into someone I don't know anymore and I haven't talked to her since we've decided to not be friends anymore.
Sometimes passing by her brother or any other family members is hard 'cause I don't know what to do.
love your pictures. and well, it's not easy to mend a relationship once it's broken
ReplyDeleteThanks fadzillah:D
ReplyDeleteApha: yeap! kinda of hard to do soon. Best is to go off as soon as possible.
ken: Thank you:)
suzanne: Yup! is superb hard to do soon. Hmmm , Hope it helps you. Something i tried to pretend nothing happened , so quite hard. Her family will keep on staring like they knows me.
Lukey: Thank you! Yup! If you/she/he is/are the forgiven and forgotten one , it will amend it.
i could use the tips. ;)
ReplyDeletelove your pics! where u took those pic? and your hair's nice.