Daddy or mummy who is your hero?

This post is very personal of my family. I had 3 sibling , all is sisters(girls world). My Mummy is the only one who raise us up for so many years.

My opinion i think my Mummy is my hero. My daddy always travel overseas for his job. He pushed all the responsible to my Mummy(NOW STILL DOING IT). So if anything happen to 4 of us , she had to be fully responsible. It sound so unfair. My daddy is only my ATM or my LOANSHARK.. Why? Everytime i get money from him , he will ask me this "that time you took my money , when are you going to return?" As a child, taking money from him is not a wrong , isn't it?

When i was young , my sisters and i were so closed to each other that we shared the same room together:) If you asked me to sleep alone , i will cry. Reason is my 19 years , i had been sleeping together with them.

There was one incident , all of us (4 girls include me) were sick. My mum is the only lady who had to take care of us and brought us to consult a doctor. Can you imagine how tough this job is? If it is you , will you cry , stress or angry with your husband for having so many children (my parent is the fierce one ; a joke) She piggyback one girl , two hands holding two girls and one girl will not attend to her care so she had to walk alone (either me , donna , or my elder sister)
That was not the end too. Imagine , when you enter to the clinic with four of your kids and attended the doctor. End of the consultant , you had to listen each of the girls medication instructions. Aren't you tired? Furthermore , when you reach home , each and everyone in the house had to take medication. So she had to woke up at middle of the night and fed us with medication.

Second incident , i remember very clearly. My sister , donna , she fainted in the MRT train. My daddy was there. Guess what he done? When she fainted , My daddy act like a stranger and don't know us. WTF! I was like hate him to the core. He even wore sunglass and helped my sister. I know is embarrassing but you as a father , you had to take a responsible isn't it? Stop pushing all the responsible to my MUM! YOU THINK YOUR WIFE IS A SUPERHERO?

Recently , just happened , My daddy blew his top because donna didn't pick up the phone. WTF! Furthermore he LOCKED the door , then my pitiful mum opened it...
They had quarrel.
It's only 1130. My sister had CCA! Why can't he be more flexible in his thinking , why is he so so rigid? Now he bought a lock and planned to lock us out. Is like prison.

In additional , every time , he always discourage us by saying negative comment like "don't need to go for competition , sure lost/ Don't need to study waste my money/study for what in the end still failed"

How he treat us good? By buying those unnecessary thing like table for laptop and etc.

What is your opinion of him? Is he my real dad or my officer?